Not Sexy Enough

I know every female has felt one time or another that they are not sexy or attractive. This happens a lot in today’s world. A lot of females think that just because they are too skinny or over weight that they are not attractive. Even though they have a man in their life that adores and loves them they still feel this way. It truly could be for any reason they feel this way. From being talked down to when they were younger, not being in the best shape, or even their ex making them feel like sh*t.

What ever the reason is that they feel that way, there is always ways to fix it. Now I’m not saying go get plastic surgery to make your boobs bigger or get surgery to lose weight. If that’s what you want to do that’s fine, but just remember don’t do it just to fit in and look good. Do it to make yourself happy. There are other ways to make yourself feel and look attractive. Buy some sexy lingerie, treat yourself to the spa, get your hair done. Also, when in bed with your partner dress up for them, have fun in bed by role-playing or using toys, its fun and they will become more attracted to you.

The person you are in a relationship with and going to bed with, should be attracted to you and love you. Otherwise they wouldn’t be with you for so long. You have to learn to bring down the walls of your insecurities when in bed with the person you love. Remember they are with you because in their eyes they found you attractive in come way. And if they love you, they will look past the little imperfections you feel with in yourself and tell you that you are beautiful just the way you are.

Nobody is perfect in this world or has a perfect bodies ladies. And men are not perfect either. They make look at other women but at the end of the day, they are coming home to you. We need to realize that no one has a perfect body ladies. Putting on all that make-up, wearing expensive designer clothes or getting plastic surgery will help you fit in and look like a celebrity. But ladies that’s not the real you. Be yourself ladies. Be natural.


Written by: Dee

  1. serenityluv1 said:

    Did you just re-write my post? lol

    • Liked your post a lot do I decided to give my own view on it

  2. serenityluv1 said:

    I guess great minds think alike!

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