They say when you fail to “get back up again” and try again. And if you fail 1000 times you get up 1000 times. But I wonder…..is that best? What is the point of trying if every time you try you make things worse? You speak and others get offended, you try and the same result happens again. I guess I wouldn’t mind if every now and then the progress was seen IN others. Not by them. I’m not saying people should go “oooooh that person is doing better” but when your trying so hard, it would be nice to see , for example if a boyfriend and girlfriend have trouble talking, it would be nice for the boyfriend to see his girlfriend is making an honest effort and bit his tounge. Rather then him getting angry at her for trying to talk.
Written by: Dee