I have been through it all. I give the absolute best relationship advice but often times take none of it. So here we go…. Everything should be almost perfect in the start of your relationship he should treat you like he is shocked you would chose him and she should treat you like you make her better by being with her. Ladies… Don’t tell the guy you love him first, men like to have that control and it makes them feel more honorable if they take that leap and wouldn’t it feel better if you ( the girl) knew he said it to you first because then you will know how he really feels being with you. If the first kiss is strange or weird it’s not always a bad thing practice makes perfect right??? Don’t ever lie, when you get into that there is no trust and that’s the hardest thing to rebuild. If you’ve been with someone for a while and u notice changes in that persons habits, be aware something is not right. If he usually wants to do everything with you then all of the sudden he is becoming more distant that is not good. If she is not sharing her thoughts with you any longer that’s also bad since women love to share everything with the people they care about. Everyone is different but we are all human and we develop habits that form our personalities. When you’re with someone long enough you begin to know them better then they know themselves. My best advice of you’re in a relationship is be yourself. We all change over time but if you both can grow together in the same direction then if it’s meant to be it will be. Don’t cheat, lie, yell or disrespect anyone including people around you. If your with someone at the moment and they see u treat others poorly if they are a person of true character they will see your true colors soon enough. Don’t gloat in others heartbreak it makes you look pathetic and ruthless. Take pride in yourself. You should be the most important person in your partners life. If you are a secret, if you aren’t included with their friends, if you can’t do that or go there have more respect for yourself and say “I deserve to be shown off, I deserve to have someone who is proud to be with me” if that’s not the case ” next”. Don’t waste your youth. Life is short and u never know what u may be missing out on. Be the best person you can be… Enjoy life and love with everything you’ve got… Everything else will fall into place.