It hurts the most when someone who made you feel special yesterday makes you feel like the most unwanted person today. ONE mistake in a relationship can ruin it for a woman/guy but if she has that mentality then she’s good but deep down they will be hurt but they have to get over it, to grow. The situation at hand is just another weight of making them stronger. I always tell my girls to be with someone who knows exactly what they got when they have you. Not someone who will realize it when they’ve lost you. Although; sometimes it takes someone to lose you to know what you truly mean to them.. It can days, weeks or months but if it’s meant to be you’ll know.. I tell my girls all the time that people say you don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone. Truth is, you knew what you had, you just never thought you’d lose it.
One of the hardest decisions you will ever have to make is when to stay and try harder and when to just take your memories and walk away. Letting go of someone isn’t nearly as hard as letting go of the memories. Cause when they’re gone, that’s all you have left of them. There will always be those awkward moments when you walk by a person and remember everything you had. It’s hard to wait around for something you know won’t happen, but it’s even harder to stop waiting when you know it’s everything you want don’t give up when you still have something to give, cause nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
That moment when you can actually feel the pain in your chest from hearing something or seeing something that breaks your heart. We all should know when not to be stupid, we all play boo-boo the foe once but how stuck do we have to be before be become STUPID? God didn’t put you on earth for you to be alone, but you gotta know when its enough to love you to let go!! Some people forget that what the Grace of God tears apart, NO Man can put back together. In relationships and in life, sometimes you need to get out of your own way. Sometimes we all gotta get over this hump. So the question is, when is enough, enough for you?? That’s one question I can’t answer for you, but what I DO KNOW is that when your done, you’ll know..
“I know how it is when someone disappoints you. It’s tempting to see things the way you wish they were instead of how they are.”