Gossip is an interesting phenomenon in society.  We have whole webpages devoted to it and television shows that put it forth as well as tabloid papers.  What is it about gossip that makes people want to talk and know what is going on?  I can’t say I have never participated in gossip but I will say I try to avoid it as much as possible.

I have seen first hand how gossip and can hurt and damage another person’s life.  What was sad about it was that when those who were putting forth the gossip realized it was harming someone else they didn’t stop they just keep it going and added fuel to the fire.  What is that we have to hurt another human being by our actions?

Gossip itself does not help in the advancement of our lives or the lives or others.  Gossip can do more damage that it can to help.  As a matter of fact I have never heard of gossip helping anyone.  I love the quote I heard once that said, ” Gossip is the lowest form of discourse.”  instead of gossiping maybe we should reach out and help other people.


Just another day, nothing never really changes. Dee and me went to City Island for some seafood literally to see-food. I’m a big shrimp fan and so is my lady. Wednesday’s are pretty boring days. For me anyway. It’s not a Friday or Saturday where I can go out to a bar and not expect to be the only person in there. Happy Hours are great but then I’ll feel like an old person who has kids and mortgage bills. Who gets up every morning to go to work. Comes home to have nothing but complaints about work. Then tucking kids away to bed. Lastly laying in bed with my spouse and saying ” Have a goodnight BABY… kisses.. MUAH ” then rolling over to the other side. BOOOORINGGGG! right ? Well I’m twenty two years old and I don’t want to be a on freaking time schedule, nor a routine. I want to have fun and lots of it.

So what’s my fun? How do I have fun? Why am I not having fun? Well lets not name the 1,000 things I do in a day. Which completely makes me sick. There always errands to take care of and a rug-rat aka my little sister (who I love dearly) who has to be driven to summer camp everyday for last three months. Boring yet…..?

So what is fun for me? I have no clue. I try to have fun everyday. Whether it’s spending time with the girlfriend, friends, working on my blog, or just trying to tie my shoes. I try to have fun, even if it means being my own entertainment. Today a couple of my good friends who will remain anonymous. Had to share the light on certain individuals which had me pondering. I like a good laugh, do you ? Well the convos my friends were speaking about had me rolling. Just knowing certain things that makes you wonder about certain things or should I say people. HMM…. However some people actually get up in the morning and look themselves in the mirror, and still try to hold some innocence is a little ODD.

Trying to crave another life out of the one your leaving in is epic fail. (repeat 3x) please ! No matter how much you try to change your image to the eyes of others. You are what you are when someone meets you. The first impression is the best but turns out to be the worst. Sorry but that’s what I’m starting to believe. When it comes to people you don’t know.

Moving on….. so I don’t bore you.

When you’re in a relationship with someone, the two big things besides love is trust and loyalty. Cheating is wrong but a lot of times it’s forgiven more easily when if the partner were to lie to them.

They say lying is wrong whether big or small. I agree and disagree at the same time. This is because a lot of times people lie to their partner to either protect them but more so to protect themselves. This is because they are insecure about themselves as well as trying to protect themselves. Its also because they’ve been hurt in the past by someone whether it’s an ex, even a family member or even someone they thought they could trust. Some people even lie to boost up their ego and their life to make themselves look good and make people like them more.

The way I see it is yes it does make things worse in the relationship if someone lies big or small. But nothing is worse then cheating. Just always rememember no matter how big the problem is in the relationship if you been in it for over a year don’t walk away try to fix the issue because no one is perfect everyone makes mistakes. Even you who is reading this probably has lied once or twice whatever the case may be or the reason why you did it. But most of all, keep your relationship issues between you two. Don’t confess your soul or look for advice to other people. The whole point of a relationship is to communicate and work thing out together. Not letting someone else solve it for you! And remember little lies do hurt but it’s not like the person committed murder!!

So my question to all the ladies and gents is, is it really that serious or is cheating worse?